I've been on this site, for three days. At the least, maybe four. I've witnessed so many things within this community day time and night time, that it's kinda crazy. In this thread, I will avoid name-dropping. I am a bit bitter about what happened. But, I really as said. Want to see this community get back to the better. For it to bloom, for it to be popular. For it to be kinder, or at least a more enjoyable experience. I'm going to break down some issues I've had, and maybe we can all talk from there. First, let me give a run down of my experience so far.
So, I started this game and immediately found good people. I was asking what was new and different from the original experience. I found out about alllll the new outfits, and all the new awesome pins, and furniture. Awesome job staff. Really, the new furni, clothes, pins you added through the years of this game is great. Keeping up to date with current and even reminding us of classic Disney is fantastic. Someone actually gifted me the sets of The Incredibles outfits. Which was super sweet. I made some new friends in the Pirates game. Met people. Interesting sense of humor that included "foul language" to some and sarcasm but you can tell everyone was genuinely enjoying themselves or seeming that way.
A day passes and I'm just enjoying playing games and such. Walking around, remembering how things used to be. I see HOSTs come into a few rooms here and there. Pretty cool to have moderating staff, or at least... I thought. What got me was, these hosts were in the room when the "foul" language was going on. I figured, this was in sense of how the community just flowed. So...I thought. Again, these few days I notice a really interesting sense of humor that it becomes almost the norm. To throw around certain terms. I threw them around. If I knew if it was okay to post and I wasn't risking burying myself even deeper into the ground here or ruining all the chances of becoming host, I'd give those specific examples. Regardless, I make the jokes. I learn about some of the past with the community and what's been happening. All very interesting and I plead to not involve myself with any drama. Because to me, internet drama is ridiculous. I don't attempt to hurt anyone. I only want to have good times. Because it's Disney for one, and it's a game for the other. I love VMK. I wouldn't want it to be have a negative aura about it.
So, yesterday. 9/20. I'm online and I joined a game which was pretty cool. Roll a number, the person standing on that line gets to pick someone to drop down a block. Go on, so forth. I make jokes, people are making jokes. Until, one person kinda takes it to heart or takes it too far. I won't say if there's a history of this because I aim to hurt no feelings. Well, drama occurs. An innocent guy who said nothing to do the man who later has an issue with me gets insulted and claimed of starting things. Same person takes the joke I make too far, his clique goes in on me after making said joke. I say to said person "I don't think we need to be so dramatic" or something of that sort like "stop being so dramatic" and I also say I don't know anyone, I'm just here to have a good time. And well, they leave. I ask what happened. I get a few interesting answers, but whatever. Moving on that day I finally hosted my first gaming event which was trivia. Was a bit small, didn't really handle it like I wanted but everyone said they had a good time. I'm pretty proud. So, drama already starts. Someone comes into the room, insults someone for doing such and such and then just causes a weird rift that I promptly move over by stating there will be no drama in this room, and ask everyone to respect each other or at least have a good time. I have witnesses of that. I also asked to find the person who had an issue with me earlier so I can apologize. Again, I'm trying to help improve this community or at least assure everyone has a good time. I apologize, everything seems fine and good. All well, no harm done.
There's changes that need made. Severely. And I'm going to list them. Again.
I'm here to try and help improve the game. Whatever happens due to this thread or my statements happen. I just want to see everyone win, we get a healthy and living VMK community filled of good people and at least toned down drama if we need to have drama at all. I'm going to fully state I'm aware this game has a past of some drama. I just want past to be past, close the books, and move forward to a nice and better looking future for VMK. That's all I want to see.
So, I started this game and immediately found good people. I was asking what was new and different from the original experience. I found out about alllll the new outfits, and all the new awesome pins, and furniture. Awesome job staff. Really, the new furni, clothes, pins you added through the years of this game is great. Keeping up to date with current and even reminding us of classic Disney is fantastic. Someone actually gifted me the sets of The Incredibles outfits. Which was super sweet. I made some new friends in the Pirates game. Met people. Interesting sense of humor that included "foul language" to some and sarcasm but you can tell everyone was genuinely enjoying themselves or seeming that way.
A day passes and I'm just enjoying playing games and such. Walking around, remembering how things used to be. I see HOSTs come into a few rooms here and there. Pretty cool to have moderating staff, or at least... I thought. What got me was, these hosts were in the room when the "foul" language was going on. I figured, this was in sense of how the community just flowed. So...I thought. Again, these few days I notice a really interesting sense of humor that it becomes almost the norm. To throw around certain terms. I threw them around. If I knew if it was okay to post and I wasn't risking burying myself even deeper into the ground here or ruining all the chances of becoming host, I'd give those specific examples. Regardless, I make the jokes. I learn about some of the past with the community and what's been happening. All very interesting and I plead to not involve myself with any drama. Because to me, internet drama is ridiculous. I don't attempt to hurt anyone. I only want to have good times. Because it's Disney for one, and it's a game for the other. I love VMK. I wouldn't want it to be have a negative aura about it.
So, yesterday. 9/20. I'm online and I joined a game which was pretty cool. Roll a number, the person standing on that line gets to pick someone to drop down a block. Go on, so forth. I make jokes, people are making jokes. Until, one person kinda takes it to heart or takes it too far. I won't say if there's a history of this because I aim to hurt no feelings. Well, drama occurs. An innocent guy who said nothing to do the man who later has an issue with me gets insulted and claimed of starting things. Same person takes the joke I make too far, his clique goes in on me after making said joke. I say to said person "I don't think we need to be so dramatic" or something of that sort like "stop being so dramatic" and I also say I don't know anyone, I'm just here to have a good time. And well, they leave. I ask what happened. I get a few interesting answers, but whatever. Moving on that day I finally hosted my first gaming event which was trivia. Was a bit small, didn't really handle it like I wanted but everyone said they had a good time. I'm pretty proud. So, drama already starts. Someone comes into the room, insults someone for doing such and such and then just causes a weird rift that I promptly move over by stating there will be no drama in this room, and ask everyone to respect each other or at least have a good time. I have witnesses of that. I also asked to find the person who had an issue with me earlier so I can apologize. Again, I'm trying to help improve this community or at least assure everyone has a good time. I apologize, everything seems fine and good. All well, no harm done.
There's changes that need made. Severely. And I'm going to list them. Again.
- The clique mentality and getting rewarded for starting things in rooms, playing the saint, and then getting away with said actions needs to stop. Either that means harsher moderation or more interesting reviews of chat-logs. But I can't be in a community where someone can easily get away with something by having friends defend or acting innocent when moderation comes to play. That happens enough in reality, I don't need that brought into a peaceful and fun loving game like Virtual Magic Kingdom.
- Let me not play victim either. I know I've said inappropriate things amongst friends on this game. Never anything that would target or hurt someone. Jokes here and there that may have took it too far but I would never intentionally ruin someone's experience. I love this game, I love spreading good times. I'm not going to tolerate the clique mentality and bullying at first hand either.
- Hosts need to be fair and handle the situations and foul language when they arise no matter what. What is a person supposed to see when they see a host in a room where language is being thrown around and no repercussion is being upheld. Humor me. Are they really supposed to believe that's NOT the norm for the community?
- If we are all playing by a harsh following of the rules, there can't be so many "passive" statements that get thrown around. There can't be any time someone should slide by without any punishment or at least a warning about their language.
- Instead of direct punishment, I offer an alternative. Telling the person who was offended, why they got offended, and trying to smooth out the situation. I'm going to be direct and harsh, not gonna bite my tounge with this one. Please don't hate me for that. But if we're gonna have a community where some want to play like children, then be the authoritative figure. Figure out why someone got their feelings hurt, ask what happened, make sure the event doesn't happen again. Tell the two to ignore each other until they can play nice, or set up proper punishment when you find out what exactly happened.
I'm here to try and help improve the game. Whatever happens due to this thread or my statements happen. I just want to see everyone win, we get a healthy and living VMK community filled of good people and at least toned down drama if we need to have drama at all. I'm going to fully state I'm aware this game has a past of some drama. I just want past to be past, close the books, and move forward to a nice and better looking future for VMK. That's all I want to see.
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