If I care about something I'm likely to get upset over it. Whether it's virtual or real life. If you don't care about the virtual game you're playing, then why play it? Kind of a waste of your time if you ask me.
Sure, that's understandable. I don't want anyone thinking I'm referring solely to vmk though, I was just using that as an example. My point is basically figuring out what you should and shouldn't care about, because sometimes we care about things we shouldn't and it turns out negatively and brings us down. I'm okay with people wanting to care about things, I really just meant how we stress about small things when it's already predetermined that it isn't anything worthy of adding negativity in our lives. For example, spilling a drink on the floor and getting upset when really it's not a big deal. When it comes to vmk, since these responses are mainly tied just to my example of that, I think it's okay for you guys to care about it! In reality, vmk is more fun than it is bad for us, which is why we play it of course and tolerate its drama most of the time. I just wanted to explain that before anyone took my example the wrong way. I'm not saying you did, but I wanted people to think outside of my example in order to help them realize that they may be letting things get them down that don't matter. It's an attempt to motivate you guys to be a bit positive.