I am at a loss as to what to do...
There is a girl, Alice, who several months ago we both wronged each other in our friendship. She was seeing another guy while she had a great boyfriend and lied to me and everyone around her about it. I confronted her about it as I was worried about her and the direction she was headed. I was out of line and her behavior after was out of line. I apologized more than once. She acted as if she wanted to put it past us but never apologized for her part in anything. I was hesitant, but after we seemed to clear the air I gave it a go. We went to dinner with another friend two saturday's in a row, went to the gym, to the mall, and she offered to help in my classroom one afternoon. For me, being a first year teacher and still in school for my Masters, is a lot of time given. She was very cold and rude every time we were together without the third friend and proceeded to tell this other friend that I only hung out with her when it was convenient for me or when I needed help in my classroom.
After this I decided that I didn't feel as though the friendship was worth trying to repair.
Alice continued to try and contact me. I explained why I no longer wanted to continue to talk. She just said everyone talks about everyone and she assumed I knew why she was angry with me.
I stopped responding to her texts or calls and she removed me from social media. I thought that would be the end of that.
The problem is we have mutual family friends. She has since started trying to call and text me today as my father did her family a favor and she has a gift for him. She is house sitting in my neighborhood and dropped by unannounced, but nobody was home so she has continued to call and text to ask when I would be home to get the gift. The very inner childish and hurt part of me does not want to see her at all, but I know in reality in the very near future I will have to see her. There are family friends who have retirement parties and weddings coming up. I just don't know how to handle this situation... Where do I go from here?
There is a girl, Alice, who several months ago we both wronged each other in our friendship. She was seeing another guy while she had a great boyfriend and lied to me and everyone around her about it. I confronted her about it as I was worried about her and the direction she was headed. I was out of line and her behavior after was out of line. I apologized more than once. She acted as if she wanted to put it past us but never apologized for her part in anything. I was hesitant, but after we seemed to clear the air I gave it a go. We went to dinner with another friend two saturday's in a row, went to the gym, to the mall, and she offered to help in my classroom one afternoon. For me, being a first year teacher and still in school for my Masters, is a lot of time given. She was very cold and rude every time we were together without the third friend and proceeded to tell this other friend that I only hung out with her when it was convenient for me or when I needed help in my classroom.
After this I decided that I didn't feel as though the friendship was worth trying to repair.
Alice continued to try and contact me. I explained why I no longer wanted to continue to talk. She just said everyone talks about everyone and she assumed I knew why she was angry with me.
I stopped responding to her texts or calls and she removed me from social media. I thought that would be the end of that.
The problem is we have mutual family friends. She has since started trying to call and text me today as my father did her family a favor and she has a gift for him. She is house sitting in my neighborhood and dropped by unannounced, but nobody was home so she has continued to call and text to ask when I would be home to get the gift. The very inner childish and hurt part of me does not want to see her at all, but I know in reality in the very near future I will have to see her. There are family friends who have retirement parties and weddings coming up. I just don't know how to handle this situation... Where do I go from here?