So I've been with an older gal for about 2 years now. We get along great, the problem is, she has about a 450 pound tumor that she calls her son. He's 27, about as big as body can be possibly stretched, and I've been warning him since October (when I moved in here after Vera's injury) that her and I would be getting our own place soon.
We bought a 3 bedroom house, and he FINALLY found something, which sounds like a storage unit or something in U-Haul lot, I don't really care. The only part I heard was he won't have a washer and dryer. Which means, our new house will now double as a public laundry mat. I'm not cool with this at all.
To give more background, he has done things like bringing home random bar friends while her and I lay asleep.. only to have them sneak into his room and do what drunk bar flies do. He went about 10 months without working, and in that window of time, he brought in a girl who end up living with us for 3 weeks till my gal wanted rent from her. She split. He bathes maybe 3 times a week, doesn't help, and tears furniture up with his size.
I don't hate him, but after the above, it's been made clear that I got zero for him.. money, help, a listening ear.. nothing. Spare me, bother someone else ya know?
Everything about the new house is in my name, but she's kinda made it clear that is he needs a laundry maid, then laundry maid she will be..