I, for one, am not upset by the things that happened. SkyeViolet spread a lot of joy, happiness, and smiles across MyVMK. While I disagree with her methods (posing as another person instead of creating a completely new, fictional human being), I think we should still remember what she did for us. In a way, we really did lose a member of the kingdom. SkyeViolet (real or not) is no longer playing the game. The person posing as her might be, but we likely will never see that particular name in the game again.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that she brought us together as a community when everything else was falling apart, and I think that's what's really important. I personally am fine with whatever decision is made about the pin (though I voted to rename it), but I think she taught us a lot about friendship, and that's really powerful to me.
Edit: what if we just took her name out of the pin? Instead of "Skye's Lucky Penny" it became the "Lucky Penny Pin."