i disagree, a lot of these posts were not simple suggestions, they were blaming the victim and seemed they couldn't understand what i had stated in my post.
i disagree, a lot of these posts discounted mental illness - and in doing so inferred that the bullying was no big deal, move on.. log off.. hit ignore.
I agree that this seems to be the general direction this thread has taken. As I've stated before, it doesn't seem to be about raising awareness of bullying or mistreatment in this game anymore, it seems to be a blame game now.
As I've also stated before, everyone would do well to keep in mind that
every single thing you say, you are held 1000 percent responsible for. Especially on the internet, because it never goes away and it is just as hurtful. Whether people aren't meaning to be offensive, aren't meaning to give unsolicited, unwarranted advice/opinion in a negative manner, or aren't meaning to blame the victim, it is all circumstantial and irrelevant. What is said, is said and can't be taken back. So as I've said before, everyone (myself included) would do well to remember that fact, and to take in to consideration the repercussions that could occur from what you are about to say to the person you're directing your response to. Think before you speak, and think hard.
Analyzing the possible outcomes of the situation beforehand, and tailoring what you say to avoid negative repercussions for you and the other party involved will alleviate the situation from escalating.
I really don't think anyone here meant for anyone to feel blamed or attacked, however that seems to be what has occurred, and I think it's best we focus on the topic at hand and not pointing fingers.
Just a friendly reminder to be courteous to one another, and if you feel you have something to say that wouldn't be favorable to the person you're speaking to, or contains even a hint of something personal that isn't needed to be said publicly, it's strongly recommended that it is spoken of
privately, out of the public eye.
This thread was meant to raise awareness of the bullying happening in game in the hopes of bringing it to the right person's attention, and nothing more. And if that's not the nature of this thread, then I must haven't read any of what has been said correctly at all.