It interesting that you should say that because I think you also come off as trying to be a moderator often, too. It has even been mentioned on a few other forums; people speculating that you are friends with the staff and so it leads to that attitude or tone from you. Maybe when one person sees it they follow suit because the tone is already set. We really need to let Kevin and Amy set the guidelines. Kevin has made it very clear that he realizes guidelines need to be set and there are already people here who are would-be violators. Until he sets those guidelines in place, there is not much that can be done. On the other hand, until those guidelines are set, much of the bossiness, childish tones, arguments, sarcasm and such will still exist.
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I don't think you will see that here. Much of that was Grace because she was selfish, controlling and immature. People that have something to say about everything are the worst for moderation. As somebody else posted in another thread, self restraint is the key. That doesn't apply to most people here.